Here is the situation I met yesterday afternoon:
My best friend, A, and best friend, B, are really really closed to each other for years, which mean, they trust each other better than me. Therefore, if I told A that B had done something wrong, A will trust whatever B explains to A, and refused to trust me...What will you feel if you are me? Well, first of all, I kind of sad and disappointed...
Well, these two best friends of mine always claimed that they know me very well, critising my thinking is so shallow...Well, I admit that my thinking is shallow but doesnt mean my thinking is incorrect...Plenty of times, they think that my opinion/point of views are always incorrect for them...Is this mean they have prejudice to me?
These few year, I found out that our relationship is quite weird, everything we have conversation, we will end up our conversation with arguement, but why? Yesterday afternoon, finally I realised that, they have support from one another, which make them think that their POV are better than me...
After this thought, a question suddenly comes to my mind, which is "Why they never think from my aspect?"...They dint claim that they had already thought whatever I had thought, but did they?
Although it is a small conflict, I had finally realised all these reasons...Kind of ironic, right? They just trust one another but not other...Eventhough "BELIEVE" has a "LIE" in the between, why you just wont listen to my explanation which is true? Ain't I your best friend too? Anyway, things happen, its happen...
PS: Please don't mind me wrong, I am not angry, but just wondering...Between friends, there are also comparison...Ironic...
When the Roll Is Called Up Yonder
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1 comments:
don't thing too much la fat fat... hehe... don't worry... i support u... XD ...
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