Expectation~~

In this world, we are surrounded by expectations, which come from different aspects, such as parents, family members, teachers, friends, and yourselves...There are a lot of people living in this world, which mean we are one of them, and we are living with different kinds of people...There is an idiom in Mandarin, which mean one type of rice raises many types of people...What do you expect other people do the same thing as same as you?

Ya, sometimes, we, ourselves, do expect other people to do somethings "automatically", but they seem like they cant do it as in our expectations...Live example here, a hygience guy lives with a dirty guy, what will happen? The hygience guy will try to put lots of expectation on the dirty one, will end up with arguement...I admit that I meet some guy like the dirty one, and stubborn, I did expect him to do the cleaning section, but end up arguement, then I totally gave up to expect on him...Another example, I have a friend who is mysophobia, his expectation to us is to high standard to us, causing us uncomfortable...He is not allowing us to drop a drop of water on the table...

Parents' expectations are more than the other aspects...This is because we are their children and expect us to get a better success and future...However, too much expectations will cause a invisible stress to the children, that is why lots of students chose to commit suicide instead of facing their parents after getting bad results...But, less expectation will cause the children dont put effort in their life, and will end up getting bad future, unless the children themselves have a mature thinking to know that studying is a access to a bright future...Therefore, suitable expectations should apply on students now a day...

When we're grown up, we live with different people, we will start to expect them to follow your life's rules, but we cant force them to do that, so we have learned to "accept" instead of expect...How much can you accept? It's depend on your EQ...In my previous post, I had admitted that my EQ is quite low...

However, no matter how difficult it is, I will try to reach the expectations from God...Because God loves us first before we love Him...He sacrifices himself to save us, how come we can reach his expectations? I am now trying to reach Him before He comes....

PS: hungry now....