My Feeling Now...

It's been a long time I din't upgrade my blog already because of my laziness to write blog. My blog wont be read by people, eventhough got, it just a few people. Now I write this blog because I suddenly got a feeling that the relationship between one of my hometown friend ( called A) and us (other hometown friends including me) have already become bad or "loose". The relationship became worse until we have very less topic that we can chat to A. I dunno why this can be happened. Perhaps he is busy, or perhaps he really have no time to gather with us, or perhaps he think that we and he are totally difficult type of person so he dun wan to join us. I dunno what the answer is...

Sometimes, I think that it is our problem...Or maybe him? I tried to invite him to our gathering everytime I went bck to my hometown but he reject or he is not at hometown...Therefore, after a long time, we started not to invite him everytime we have gathering since he is not always at hometown...Actually eventhough he is at hometown, he also wont contact us to come out gathering...

Just now, I viewed his friendster, I felt like I was unfamiliar with A, the feeling is like if you ask me what he is doing recently, my answer will be :" I dunno"...If you ask one of us, I think the answer will be same...Actually after form 5, we started to separate to further our study where is far from each other, therefore, to closer our relationship, everytime I went back to my hometown, sure I will call out all my hometown friends go out "yam cha"...Perhaps some of people think that "yamcha" is very waste time, but through "yamcha", the relationship will be stand firm and become closer...

Why we have to closer our relationship with our hometown friends? The reason is very clear. Only the hometown friends know you the best, perhaps better than yourself and your family...hometown friends are the friends that wont betray you and hurt you, even they will try to protect you...They use true heart to friend with you...Asking yourself, how many years already you know your hometown friends? How do you know your hometown friends?

Therefore, appreciate your hometown friends, they will help in the future...Dun let the relationship between you and them become bad or unfamiliar...